There are many men out there that feel helpless when it comes to a beautiful woman, and a great piece of ass. I have heard men say to me that they don’t know what it is about me, but they can’t get me off of their mind. When I am given the opportunity to get to know a man intimately, they begin to treat me as if I were a drug. Is this a form of pussy control or cock control, or is it simply the physical make of a man that causes him go mad when he comes in contact with a great little kat? Has a man’s brain deceived him and thrown him into a situation that makes it hard for him to think? What do the experts say?

They say that the portion of the brain called the posterior insula Is highly specialized to convey emotional/homeostatic information such as pain, temperature, itch, local oxygen status and sensual touch. The insula also reads body states like hunger and craving and helps push people into reaching for the next sandwich, cigarette or line of cocaine.” A number of functional brain imaging studies have shown that the insular cortex is activated when drug abusers are exposed to environmental cues that trigger cravings. This has been shown for a variety of drugs of abuse, including cocaine, alcohol, opiates and nicotine.

In plain English the posterior insula is stimulated during sexual activity. This is what causes men to react to good pussy as if it were a drug. What I found more interesting is that during sexual stimulation the amygdala was deactivated. The amygdala is an almond-shaped neuro structure in the brain that is involved in producing and responding to nonverbal signs of anger, avoidance, defensiveness, and fear It is a small mass of gray matter that inspires aversive cues, such as the freeze reaction, sweaty palms, and the tense-mouth display. It is also a primeval arousal center, originating in early fishes, which is central to the expression of negative emotions in man.

Funny thing is that the last sentence implies that it only affects men. This could be the exact reason why men loose their mind over such a wonderful drug like mines. Is this the reason why a man’s defenses are down when I am ready to go in for the kill, and gain all it is that I want and desire? I believe this to be an extraordinary find. Don’t be surprised when were on the phone during a guided masturbation, sissy, stroke for me, or even a forced bi call, and I have you doing things that you never thought you would do. Your guard is down, and I’m your drug pusher giving you a fix. Your really not thinking with your cock, are you? Your brain is functioning as it should. Blame your behavior on your amygdala.

Cock Control Bio

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I know that you enjoy it when I get to write about the wonderful Mistresses here at LDW. I did a 2 girl call with sexy Mistress Meredith. Mistress Meredith is a very down to earth Domme that specializes in the art of seduction. I can say that there is a natural allure that exudes from her every word. I was in awe as I listened to our caller scream out her name over and over again. He seemed as if he were in a never ending trance that sent him into a sexual frenzy.

The customer was a regular of Mistress Meredith’s, and by the sound of his voice he had become fallen prey. Mistress Meredith had become the god of his idolatry, and he had no problem worshiping the ground she walked upon. I was but a tool used to bring this man to greater depths of lust. We played a game that allowed Mistress Meredith and me to be the center of the caller’s universe. The client enjoyed body worship, amongst other hot and steamy play. The client was satisfied after having 2 complete orgasms, and two sexy Mistresses moaning in approval.

The call was very memorable because it was like talking to a couple of old friends. I do enjoy calls that are not rushed, but instead follow a natural conversational flow. Calls are always better when you are able to get to know a bit about each other prior to getting down to business. This was definitely an erotic phone session that would have made anyone blush.

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Vox Erotic Bio

Vox Erotic Recording

It’s time for Memoirs Of My Sissy. Melinda is changing into the perfect work of sissy art. I can only imagine the subtle changes in her mannerism. The changes that I can not see, but can only sense through the sound of her voice. A hard, masculine projection has been replaced with a soft feminine undertone. It makes me think about the things I embedded in her brain and the effect that it has had on her subconscious.

I try to figure out exactly what it was that made everything so real for her. Was it the moment that I changed her name to Melinda or the moment that I told her to throw out all of her men’s under pants? Maybe it was my complete dominance! Does Melinda feel like she is under a spell when I call her names that affirm her place in this life? Maybe it was my humiliation sessions that make some sissies drop to their knees, yet cause them to get a hard on all at the same time? I know that she enjoys it tremendously when I tell her that I will cuckold, and feminize her. I may never know. I’m not sure if Melinda can answer that question. What she does know is that she is changing.

Hello my Goddess, my living Icon! I have kept an eye out for you all day in the hopes that I might be able to please you with how complete your grasp is on my very self, and so I can hear your melodic Voice and of course Your intoxicating Laughter! I have thought about the fantasy you so graciously shared with me about my live-in servitude of you and your black lover almost non-stop! I am hoping against hope that you might check your email and desire to speak with Your Melinda. If I could only be so lucky! I bought a pink teddy today that I am wearing in my bed right now, I look and feel fabulous! All I’m missing is my Goddess.

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Sissy School Bio

Sissy School Recording

I like to write posts about circumstances and situations that affect myself as well and my clients. I want to talk about things that plague our minds on a daily basis. It is important for me to write about subjects that cause my readers to examine one self. When I speak about self examination, I am more or less talking about the process of allowing certain thoughts or ideas to filter through ones brain. Although it is entertaining to keep things light hearted and fun, it is beneficial to put words on a piece of paper that create a deeper meaning.

I have come to the realization that I provide a service that is used for entertainment purposes. In a perfect phone sex world your experience and interaction with me is suppose to be pleasurable. What I want you to understand is that I agree with my previous statement. I don’t agree with the other painful and shameful emotions that go along with phone sex, and at times is swept under the rug.

If my clients want a mindless, unconcerned, impersonal twit on the other end, I can definitely try to role play such behavior. Maybe you want a quick wham bam thank you ma’am? That can be arranged. For the most part, I want my readers and clients to realize that I see each and every one of them as individuals. I believe the ultimate phone sex experience is created through an intelligent, confident, creative, and intuitive operator. We are all real people, with real feelings that face real challenges. I am fully aware of the shame some callers feel when calling me. So is phone sex truly an embarrassment?

I feel that the service I provide is truly a beneficial one. There are clients that call for companionship, and if it were not for phone sex operators, they would live a very lonely life. Phone sex operators provide a safe non judgmental environment that allows clients to bare all. There are also some fantasies such as forced bi, cuckold, and feminization that would be really difficult for some to explore in real life. Phone sex provides an outlet for such fantasies to be experienced. Imagination and creativity goes a long way. It is possible to lose oneself in a call, and experience something explosive which will be difficult to accomplish in real life. Some may be skeptical, but I know for a fact through my experiences that it is very true. A good operator gets to know her client, and in turn creates an experience that is heightened on each encounter. The experience that you have through phone sex can change your life for the better; it is one of the few services that allow you to receive therapy and have an orgasm all at the same time. I feel that is quite impressive.

You don’t have to hang up immediately after you ejaculate on the phone because you feel guilty. There is nothing to feel guilty about. You don’t have to feel shy because you are going to tell me something that is out of the ordinary. I have heard it all. The moment you let go, and allow yourself to be comfortable, is the moment that you will realize that phone sex can be extremely helpful. Don’t be ashamed you have just tapped into the fountain of self exploration.

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Vox Erotic Bio

Vox Erotic Recording

I did a 2 girl cock control call with Sensual Mistress Samantha. I must say that we complimented one another very well. She had a very sweet, sexy voice that would make any slave melt into submission.

The call started off with our client showing himself on webcam. He was sitting on the couch with his penis in hand. It was a decent sized penis that was not fully hard at first. As we coached him along, it seemed as if he had gotten an erection on command.

Once he put lube on his penis, he was ready to stroke to our every word. Empress Samantha was very knowledgeable about different stroking techniques. She was very detailed as she guided him by showing him the proper way of holding his hand and fingers around his penis. “Stroke for me” Empress Samantha said in her hypnotic, seductive voice.

I was more concerned about him not being able to ejaculate. I like to know that the little naughty wanker is able to wait as long as he can before exploding. It was a hot erotic call as Empress Samantha perfected the clients masturbating techniques, while I made him stop stroking as he got closer to orgasm. I wanted to try to help the client experience multiple orgasms, but it seems that he was too turned on to comply.

Empress Samantha and I teased the client with our feminine form by showing him our beautiful shapely long legs, and quick glimpses of our panties. When the client finally shot his big load, he thanked us profusely.

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Stroke For Me Bio

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I am the spider which web has been spun.
You may come close, and not touch and perceive that you are safe. Silky intricate beauty of a road that leads to your doom.
Complexities of a unique species studied through your naked eye.
I am drenched in patience for the curious admirer.
Sticky invisible traps of clinginess await you.

That is a short poem that I wrote about the web that is weaved during my cock control calls. If you have not had the pleasure to ask for a guided masturbation or tease and denial call with me, then you are totally missing out on something spectacular.

I have written in previous posts about the joy I feel when I am able to control ones cock. I will never admit to being better at cock control verses other fetishes, because I certainly get praises for them all. I can only attest to my natural desire to have men beg for the opportunity to cum. Men get an erection without warning, and never ask for permission. The least they can do is ask for permission to ejaculate.

If you are not allowed to cum during my cock control calls, you are definitely allowed to have multiple orgasms. It is my plan to seduce you with my sensual voice, while providing you with a guided hand as you orgasm over and over again, back to back, without ejaculating. If you have never experienced such sensations, then you have not experienced true pleasure. I’m not being cocky. No pun intended! I am just simply confident!

So what is this web you say? The web represents the tools that are used to get you hooked, and trapped in a position to where there is no way out. It’s basically where I want you to be. Totally and utterly dependent on me to give you the pleasure you seek. I can’t give it all away, because a girl has to keep some secrets to herself. If you dare venture off into a world where time stands still, and ecstasy invades your soul, I’m only 7 digits away.

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Cock Control Bio

Cock Control Recording

Its time for Memoirs Of My Sissy again, and as always it is exciting to write about a sissy that is becoming what she was meant to be all because of my guided hand. Today I spoke to Melinda, and the funny thing is that she did not sound anything like she had sounded in past weeks. To my surprise Melinda sounded as if she was going through a transformation. There are some people that would have spoken to her and right away would say that she sounded like a sissy faggot. Please understand that Melinda is into humiliation, and because of that she enjoys being called such names. This type of name calling is not for everyone, and therefore I don’t use it to describe all people I encounter that decide to dress in women’s clothing.

When I asked Melinda about her new voice, or as I could hear that her mannerisms seemed very feminine, she informed me that wearing panties made her feel like a woman. She had no idea that she had changed in anyway. One thing was for certain, and that one thing was that Melinda felt different from the inside out. I was astonished by her willingness to do what ever it took to venture out into the world of feminization. The things that I wanted to make my new personal little sissy slave do swirled in my head. Dressing Melinda in a French Maid’s outfit, and allow her to serve me in all ways was prevalent. I wanted her to be my little cuckold! It was very evident that she wanted to pleasure other men, and I wanted to make her fantasies real by providing her with visual and mental stimulation. It seemed as if my suggestions resonated her mind.

Hello Goddess, I hope I’m not bothering you, but I just looked at that French Maid’s outfit you sent me a website link to. I have to tell you, I would just love to wear that for you! Your taste of course is impeccable!  Now that Melinda is awakened and I am sitting here in my office chair wearing panties as you told me to, my mind is wandering. I am thinking about all kinds of deliciously naughty things. I have thoughts of serving you EXACTLY how you want and deserve to be served! It would be a privilege to pleasure your divine clit while you are getting fucked by your lover. I keep thinking about the fabulous view of him stretching you to your limits. My thoughts are making my clitty rock hard! I want to Get him hard for you, and guide him Inside of you. Lastly, I want to use my mouth to clean you both up. Seems there are all kinds of submission niches, and I adore thinking of the ones I know of when it comes to you. I suppose that makes me about the sissiest bitch around! I get butterflies when thinking of where this is going to go, and how far you will push me. I just hope you get the pleasure you deserve from the Control you have over me!

Slutty and submissively Yours,

Melinda

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Sissy School Bio

Sissy School Recording

I know what you’re thinking. You are thinking that I have gone insane with the title of my post. I can assure you that’s not the case. I truly enjoy having full control of a man’s penis. What better way to ensure that I keep that control by putting my submissive in chastity?

Men constantly get erections. I feel that those sudden stiff surprises need to be put under submission. Why should men have the luxury of getting hard without warning? Should I be subjected to a hard on because I’m a sexy woman? Maybe your penis stands at attention when you hear the sound of my voice. Is it the mere thought of my feminine form in compromising poses that is causing that bulge in your pants? As far as I’m concerned men should ask for permission before they decide to get hard at my expense.

It is such a turn on to have a chastity key dangling on a necklace around my neck. It makes me smile to know that I have a little slutty man under my power and control, and he can’t get erect and he can’t cum without my guided hand. I want to know that I have made a man completely and utterly  dependant on my very existence.

The best gift any man can give me is the gift of chastity. My favorite chastity device is the CB2000. I like this device for many reasons. It is not only the first device made to distribute in mass quantities, but it is also inexpensive, and reliable.

Many of my callers use the CB2000 for many different forms of domination such as tease and denial, feminization, humiliation, and cuckolding sessions. It is definitely a great addition to any phone session. Give your Mistress a gift today. Give her your cock!

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Cock Control Bio

Cock Control Recording

Its time for Memoirs of My Sissy! It is always exciting to be able to take a piece of clay and mold it to your liking. This is what I’m doing with Melinda. She was once a very confused man. A mere cuckold with no direction in life.   Now she is turning into a Sissy with a plan. Melinda is in the potter’s hands, and she is being molded into something beautiful. She is a rare piece of excellence on a shelf for all to see. Everything is a slow progression. Today I instructed Melinda to throw out all her men’s underwear in order to make room for all her new female panties. She is not longer allowed to wear men’s boxers or briefs. I want her to feel sexy!

Again, today I would like to thank you for being you, I have had an awakening in me, Melinda has been waiting for an opportunity and you have kicked down the door that had locked her in! Yesterday I took care of my underwear situation and got rid of all my boxers…then I put on a pale pink satin string bikini pair of panties and found the tightest shorts I have. When I bent over I could see my panty lines, it was so slutty, and I loved it! And I think it would have pleased you to see me! I also picked up some cherry lip gloss in my travels, as soon as I did I applied it, I felt so sexy, there was no shame in my game!

You have really knocked something loose in me Goddess, with the way you exude your superiority, the sultriness of your voice and the way you KNOW that you have me as a lump of clay to mold and shape into how you see fit, I cannot help but get worked up sitting here in my panties thinking about it! AND I cannot wait for my next assignment! Who can know how far this might go? I just close my eyes and imagine you above me, receiving all the Pleasure you deserve, and me, facilitating that in ANY way possible!

Sluttily Yours, my Breathtaking Example of Perfection,

Melinda

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Sissy School Bio

Sissy School Recording

Ladies and gents listen up! Your favorite phone sex Mistress is finally on Cock Radio. That’s right, I have my own pulse pumping, penis teasing slot on Monday’s at 8pm EST.

I had my debut on Cock Radio this past Monday. It was amazing and all so fun. The adrenaline was shooting through my veins as I spoke my first words. I must say that I felt a bit shy. Those that know me are quite aware of my very boisterous, outgoing personality. I am anything but bashful. A new experience stirs up new emotions. That was definitely the case on Monday!

Everyone assembled in the Cock Radio Chat Room. I was joined by the head Mistress in charge Ms Ally, Lifestyle Femdom Ms Vivian, Sadistic Mistress Ms Elizabeth, and Sensual Dominatrix Empress Lauren. I played a very broad variety of music that had many listeners baffled. I enjoy all genres, and nothing is off limit. I own over 6 thousand songs, and the list keeps growing. I can’t imagine a world without music because to me everything is a dance. What does that mean? I rather have you create your own interpretation.

So what is my radio show about? Honestly, it’s about what ever I feel like discussing at any specific time. Pretty much just like my blog. I try not to focus on one specific topic. I rather keep things fresh and exciting. I am a very complex woman that enjoys the variety that life has to offer. You should expect to hear discussions about guided masturbation, feminization, forced bi, and humiliation just to name a few. Mondays play list consisted of artists such as, Aerosmith, Lords of Acid, Rob Zombie, Shakira, Justin Timberlake, Pussykat Dolls, Rihanna, Disturbed, Amy Winehouse, Alicia Keys, Gwen Stefani, and Beyonce. If you think you will enjoy listening to a Mistress that knows how to party, tune in every Monday between 8pm and 9pm EST.

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Vox Erotic Bio

Vox Erotic Recording