I must say that I speak to a lot of my callers about oral sex.  I know the best penis suckers around!  I can think of one in general that craves penis in his mouth.  Due to his great reverence for penis, I decided to ask him about his penis sucking techniques. He informed me that he was able to take very large penises in his mouth without gagging. That was very interesting to hear, and it had me thinking whether or not one should strive to gag less. If you are performing oral sex on a man and you gag does it mean that you give bad head?

There are some men that prefer one to gag on their penis.  There is something about the sound of a throat and not being able to swallow a long fat penis until it is completely engorged by ones mouth that seems to be stimulating to some. Maybe this excitement comes from a man that likes to be thought of as having an oversized penis. Knowing that someone is having a hard time taking it all in is an indication that the man is above average.  If you gag and it pleases your lover, then you are definitely considered to be a fantastic giver of oral sex.

Being able to take a big penis in ones mouth without gagging is an art form that many try to master.  Anything over 7 inches may be a struggle for some especially if it’s a 7 inch fat one.  It can be a rewarding skill to learn when you want to impress your well hung lover.  Letting him know with your mouth that you can handle big things, can definitely be an enormous turn on.

How does one control gag reflexes?  I have some information from the mouth of one of my depraved sluts. (No pun intended) He said that one must breathe through the throat before pulling the penis in.  Does it work?  Yes it does, and it works without having to worry about removing gag reflexes.  This is a quick method that can be put into action right away.

What if you want to control or remove your gag reflexes?  That is a little bit harder!  The easiest thing to do is to practice in the mornings when you get up to brush your teeth.  Brush your tongue by pushing your toothbrush as far back as you can until you gag.  Once you gag you want to continue to brush your tongue in the same exact place until you don’t gag anymore.  You need to repeat these steps each time by going further back in your mouth with your toothbrush.  Start from the closest gag reflexes to the front of your mouth, and work your way back.  This helps you to avoid missing gag reflexes closest to the opening of your mouth. Then of course once you stop gagging you are ready to try it out on a penis.

If your partner has a small penis and you know that there is no need for you to worry about such things, then you are among the lucky ones.  I still would rather something with a little more substance. Good luck cuckolds, sissies, and just plan old cock suckers every where!

Suck Patrol Bio

Suck Patrol Recording

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Why do some men secretly want to perform oral sex on another man?  It seems like a simple question that deserves a simple answer.  If you are someone that frequents my blog, then you are aware that I feel that there is always something complex hidden and lurking behind the simplicities of life.  Someone would say that a man wants to be forced into performing oral sex on another man, because he’s an under cover cock sucker, and has gay tendencies. I would even go as far as saying that they he has an oral fixation, but that would be too easy of an answer.

I like to refer back to the porn industry.  There are not many people that know this, but most male porn stars that perform in gay porn are actually heterosexual men.  This tells me that there are reasons out side of the obvious that would make a man seek oral activity. When it comes to porn, a fat pay  check is clearly the motivator. This alone makes me believe that there are other uncovered motivating factors.

Some researches think that these urges are the result of bad behavior that can be reversed. These same researches feel that some men fall into such activities because they want to experiment with something new. Some want to live a life of self indulgence, and due to it they don’t want to fall into restraints that society puts on them. Psychoanalysts such as Bieber, and Socarides state that such behaviors is a result of mental illness, symptomatic of arrested development. They believe that such tendencies have unnatural or perverse desires as a consequence of poor familial relations in childhood or some other trauma. And lastly there is a biological view that states such desires are genetic or hormonal in origin, and therefore there is no conscious thought or childhood trauma that could have created such feelings.

The need to be kinky is a repent theme amongst my callers.  It always seems like something a caller wants to experiment  with because they have never tried it before.  I have had many callers tell me just that.  I seem to lean toward the opinion of the first hypothesis stated previously.  We are in a day and age to where it is more acceptable to try new sexual experiences, and what better way to explore these fantasies but in a safe environment with a beautiful phone sex Mistress on the other end.  If you want me to cuckold, and somehow something slides in your mouth during our session, that is quite alright with me. Maybe you’re not shy to ask for what you want, and forced bi is your thing, I can surely oblige. The act of fallacio is a wonderful thing.

Suck Patrol Bio

Suck Patrol Recording

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I’m back from vacation and I must say that I have missed my daily phone sex calls. I find it funny to believe that I needed a vacation away from the vacation. You would think that the fun and excitement of Disney World would help put my mind at ease. Oh contre mon frère!

It seemed as if I was stuck in my home town of New York City, and that I would never make it to sunny Florida to see Mickey. I searched high and low for a reputable dog sitter, and during my search, I was pretty positive that I had found one. Little did I know that I had left my pets in the hands of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. The man that I thought I left my dogs with was very personable, as he told me and my mom stories of his dog watching adventures. He seemed to have a real love for 4 legged creatures. My 3rd day in Orlando was abruptly interrupted by a phone call from my dog sitter telling me that one of my dogs refused to go out to potty with him, and my other dog had fleas. So you mean one of my dogs is pooping in the house and my other dog has fleas? That’s exactly what Mr. Hyde said. I was not able to enjoy my stay in Orlando, because the whole time I was fuming. I was fuming because I knew that I left the dogs flea- less at home, and secondly because I left the dogs home with someone that was irresponsible. I knew I could not do anything about this until I got home, so I decided to press onward and try to enjoy the rest of my vacation.

The Disney rides were fun, but the night life was even better. Btw, I went with my mom, so when she passed out from exhaustion, I went out to the dance clubs to do a bit of boy toy searching. Latina’s can move, and by all means, I knew how to move my pretty little ass. I enjoyed the attention I received from men, and the many Cosmopolitans that were purchased for me. I met a group of women there that adopted me in their crazy click, and let me just say the rest was history.

When it was finally time to come home, I got stuck in the airport overnight because my flight was canceled due to bad weather. From having to come home and make sure my dogs were taking care of, and on their way back to good health, and a canceled flight, I am glad to be back. I have gotten many emails from clients telling me how much they crave my phone sex sessions, and I must say that I am ready to get back into the swing of things also. I am looking forward to hearing from my depraved little sluts, my cute little sissies, my undercover cock suckers, and the brave souls that leave their cocks in my care. Talk to you soon! Beware of the amazing phone sex sessions. I need to catch up for lost times.

Vox Erotic Bio

Vox Erotic Recording

There are many men out there that feel helpless when it comes to a beautiful woman, and a great piece of ass. I have heard men say to me that they don’t know what it is about me, but they can’t get me off of their mind. When I am given the opportunity to get to know a man intimately, they begin to treat me as if I were a drug. Is this a form of pussy control or cock control, or is it simply the physical make of a man that causes him go mad when he comes in contact with a great little kat? Has a man’s brain deceived him and thrown him into a situation that makes it hard for him to think? What do the experts say?

They say that the portion of the brain called the posterior insula Is highly specialized to convey emotional/homeostatic information such as pain, temperature, itch, local oxygen status and sensual touch. The insula also reads body states like hunger and craving and helps push people into reaching for the next sandwich, cigarette or line of cocaine.” A number of functional brain imaging studies have shown that the insular cortex is activated when drug abusers are exposed to environmental cues that trigger cravings. This has been shown for a variety of drugs of abuse, including cocaine, alcohol, opiates and nicotine.

In plain English the posterior insula is stimulated during sexual activity. This is what causes men to react to good pussy as if it were a drug. What I found more interesting is that during sexual stimulation the amygdala was deactivated. The amygdala is an almond-shaped neuro structure in the brain that is involved in producing and responding to nonverbal signs of anger, avoidance, defensiveness, and fear It is a small mass of gray matter that inspires aversive cues, such as the freeze reaction, sweaty palms, and the tense-mouth display. It is also a primeval arousal center, originating in early fishes, which is central to the expression of negative emotions in man.

Funny thing is that the last sentence implies that it only affects men. This could be the exact reason why men loose their mind over such a wonderful drug like mines. Is this the reason why a man’s defenses are down when I am ready to go in for the kill, and gain all it is that I want and desire? I believe this to be an extraordinary find. Don’t be surprised when were on the phone during a guided masturbation, sissy, stroke for me, or even a forced bi call, and I have you doing things that you never thought you would do. Your guard is down, and I’m your drug pusher giving you a fix. Your really not thinking with your cock, are you? Your brain is functioning as it should. Blame your behavior on your amygdala.

Cock Control Bio

Cock Control Recording

Ladies and gents listen up! Your favorite phone sex Mistress is finally on Cock Radio. That’s right, I have my own pulse pumping, penis teasing slot on Monday’s at 8pm EST.

I had my debut on Cock Radio this past Monday. It was amazing and all so fun. The adrenaline was shooting through my veins as I spoke my first words. I must say that I felt a bit shy. Those that know me are quite aware of my very boisterous, outgoing personality. I am anything but bashful. A new experience stirs up new emotions. That was definitely the case on Monday!

Everyone assembled in the Cock Radio Chat Room. I was joined by the head Mistress in charge Ms Ally, Lifestyle Femdom Ms Vivian, Sadistic Mistress Ms Elizabeth, and Sensual Dominatrix Empress Lauren. I played a very broad variety of music that had many listeners baffled. I enjoy all genres, and nothing is off limit. I own over 6 thousand songs, and the list keeps growing. I can’t imagine a world without music because to me everything is a dance. What does that mean? I rather have you create your own interpretation.

So what is my radio show about? Honestly, it’s about what ever I feel like discussing at any specific time. Pretty much just like my blog. I try not to focus on one specific topic. I rather keep things fresh and exciting. I am a very complex woman that enjoys the variety that life has to offer. You should expect to hear discussions about guided masturbation, feminization, forced bi, and humiliation just to name a few. Mondays play list consisted of artists such as, Aerosmith, Lords of Acid, Rob Zombie, Shakira, Justin Timberlake, Pussykat Dolls, Rihanna, Disturbed, Amy Winehouse, Alicia Keys, Gwen Stefani, and Beyonce. If you think you will enjoy listening to a Mistress that knows how to party, tune in every Monday between 8pm and 9pm EST.

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Vox Erotic Bio

Vox Erotic Recording

I was looking through my posts, and I realized that I have not paid any tribute to my wonderful sexy female clients. These calls seem to flow because it’s like talking to one of the girls. I can totally admire a lady that takes care of every detail of her appearance, making sure she looks her very best. There are some men that take better care of being a woman, than women take care of being themselves.

I understand that this road is not a road easily traveled. It is hard enough to wear women’s underwear under men’s clothing, but harder to wear a full females ensemble on top of a man’s body. I often try to put myself in my client’s shoes and think about the identity crisis they face. What is life like for my sister friends that feel that they should have been born a woman?

I know there are the few that want to be called sissy’s, and find comfort in being humiliated for their panty wearing ways. I often wonder if some of the humiliation is a cover up for the deep rooted pain associated with living a double life. Is the need to be humiliated derived from the hidden or uncovered truths in ones life that truly make them feel ashamed? Although it’s a good question, it’s one of those questions that I can not answer. One has to decide whether wearing a dress is a kink used solely for sexual gratification, or if wearing a dress is a full life style change. When these special ladies are able to accept themselves as is, then and only then will they truly be able to come in to being who they were meant to be.

It is always exciting to be able to chat with my prissy, sassy, divas. There is nothing that I like better then giving beauty secrets. Every girl loves to shop! We can have a girly good time during feminization sessions, or a sensual time during our night out with the boys. I just like doing what women do best. Kudos goes out to my entire list of sister friends.

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Sissy School Bio

Sissy School Recording

So you’re a man, and you enjoy giving head. What goes on in your mind when you think about performing oral sex on another man? Are you a little faggot? Forgive me for my blunt approach to this subject. At times I realize that I can be very abrasive in my wording. I’m aware that my readers and clients are grown men that at times call themselves faggots. So don’t let my banter surprise you.

A lot of men seem to be fascinated with the thought of performing oral sex on another man. Some men think about it on a daily basis, stroking in secrecy in hopes that no one will ever find out their hidden lusts. I get those clients on the phone, and a lot are embarrassed and shy because they feel it’s a taboo subject. Those clients are looking for a sexy woman to provide them with reassurance and encouragement to at least fantasize about such acts. They sometimes want me to force them to do something that they already want. It can be looked at as blame shifting. I didn’t want to suck the penis, but mistress made me do it. (winks)

We can’t forget the men that have reached the status of depraved penis suckers. The ones that have tried oral sex with another man and for some reason or another can’t seem to stop wanting more. These are the men that took the plunge, and decided that oral sex with another man was more pleasurable then what they could ever imagine. These clients need unlimited supply of penis to suck, and would stop at nothing to get their hands on another man’s penis.

I separate oral sex, from anal sex because they seem to not necessarily coexist. A lot of men that perform oral sex don’t necessarily engage in anal sex with other men. Makes me believe that there are more knob slobbers then butt bangers. We must keep in mind that some men may never admit to wanting more then oral sex.

So basically you’re attracted sexually to women, you’re not attracted sexually to men, but you love engaging in oral sex with men. Have you entered into the world of faggotry? In my opinion, no! You basically enjoy the pleasure of the act. It’s like seeing the penis as a separate entity from a man. It’s an empowering experience for some, and an act of submission for others. Some men don’t want to perform oral sex on another man without the presence of a woman. This becomes a time of sharing with your female partner. It takes a bit of self examination to find your reason. It saddens me when I hear the shame in client’s voices due to their fantasy. I am here to provide an understanding voice and help guide you through your feelings. I am never here to judge. The next time you call your Mistress, be proud of who you are.

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Suck Patrol Bio

Suck Patrol Recording

You’re engaging in sexual activity with your sexy female partner, and as you go on with the act of sexual intercourse, your arousal intensifies. Your penis has swelled to its maximum size inside of your woman, and you are about to explode. You look down at the delicious perfect lady under your strong masculine physique, and you whisper in her ears, did you cum yet? Are you cumming? She moans, and groans and you know that she is feeling great, because her muscles begin to tighten all over your manhood. You thrust in and out at a faster rate, and you ask again, hoping the answer will be yes. Are you cumming?

Did your lady cum? She said she did, and you believe her because she was screaming, and yelling, and her body was convulsing. Her vagina even felt like it was going to rip your penis in half. I’m here to set the record straight about women that fake orgasm. From time to time women fake orgasm. Why do woman do this? I can think of a couple of reasons for faking orgasm.

Some women don’t know what an orgasm feels like. Sad to say, some women never have experienced a orgasm and therefore, have no idea what their man is referring to when they ask if they have cum, so instead of being honest, and letting their man know that they are a novice, they fake what they feel a orgasm should look and sound.

Some women like to savor the moment, and enjoy sexual stimulation for as long as they can without worrying about cumming. Its not that a woman is holding back from orgasm, it’s just that some women take longer to cum then others. It’s frustrating when a woman is trying to enjoy sex and every minute their partner is asking if they have cum yet. Women get annoyed, and because they don’t want to hear that question again, they fake it.

Lastly some women just don’t want to disappoint their men by telling them that they cant cum. It’s nothing worse then seeing the sadness on a mans face when they feel that they have failed you as a lover. Women want their men to feel like men, so they put on a nice show.

Learn to keep the lines of communication open. Take time to learn about what your woman likes sexually. If you are truly a caring man that is willing to take the time to explore your lover’s body, faking it won’t be a part of your love making.

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Femphone Bio

Femphone Recording